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So many second marriages fail Ania, for whatever reason. Often because both partners are older and more set in their ways.Re: Having a grump!
Ania I have the same problem with a family member , this is made even worse by the fact that I really liked her previous husband and she now has a serious illness .The rest of my family feel the same but the new relationship was her decision so we all smile sweetly, groan inwardly and wait to pick up the pieces should it be necessary.Re: Having a grump!
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Funny that you all (except Plantman) comment on the marriage as if it were the problem. It may be the cause, but my problem is losing my friend, not just that I don't like her husband. The latter is no business of mine - as I said in the original post, it's her life. But the former is sad.Re: Having a grump!
It would seem on the face of it, that, the only place a long term close friendship can be sustained is within a marriage itself. Most folks have their own "life" plans which usually involve travelling solo through a period of their life, even ones own offspring can become detatched, but usually a marriage transcends (or suppresses) the need to "go it alone", I am not suggesting that some folks, don't have platonic long term close friendships, but that it is more the excecption than the rule. Imo.Re: Having a grump!
Spitfire, I cannot agree with you on that. It would suggest that those of us who are single cannot sustain a long-term close friendship, which clearly is not true. My closest friend is married but we still maintain a strong friendship.
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