Re: Jealousy.
No Jim, you're absolutely right. Jealousy is more a woman's emotion than that of a man.Re: Jealousy.
I don't consider myself a jealous person, I've always considered that if I don't hold his interest then being jealous and mean isn't gonna bring him back! Out he goes!Re: Jealousy.
I am not sure about it being a womans thing. Are'nt most murders of passion carried out by men?Re: Jealousy.
I don't envy anything that belongs to anyone else. I am happy with what I have and consider myself lucky.Re: Jealousy.
Never felt, nor feel jealous of anyone. We weren't well off where I came from and everyone was in the "same boat", so that emotion never rose!Re: Jealousy.
I think an important distinction between jealousy and envy is that jealousy is often less controllable and irrational, whereas envy is a much more tangible emotion which can be quite a motivator.Re: Jealousy.
I must admit I felt strong jealousy because of my husband's first wife. When I met him they were already separated, but even though they had parted I felt her presence in our relationship. I felt a need to remove every trace of her in his life and I harboured dark thoughts of posting mice through her letterbox at one point (absolutely true ). I suppose the feelings were an indication of my not feeling secure and safe. She had had him first and he had loved her first when he was younger. In some undefined way I thought she could intrude on our lives. Even though she didn't know who I was and passed me in the town without recognition, I knew who she was and whenever I saw her I was jealous. Looking back it was irrational, but once I had been with him longer than she had I realised that she didn't have any affect on us and I got over it.
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