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09-03-2021, 09:58 AM
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Seriously

Do you really care what others think about you?
Not family members.......just Joe the public.
How they criticise you?..etc.etc.

Or, do you care what others think about you? and why?

My point is..do you care what Joe public “ Think about “ You”..in a critical way, when they don’t even know you....

What makes us criticise others?

Most of us have done it.....what’s it saying about us when we constantly criticise others.?..in a negative/ destructive light.....?
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09-03-2021, 10:22 AM
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Re: Seriously

Yes, in a nutshell.
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09-03-2021, 10:24 AM
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Re: Seriously

Originally Posted by Besoeker ->
Yes, in a nutshell.
Can you explain, why?
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09-03-2021, 10:43 AM
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Re: Seriously

depends on the person concerned.
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09-03-2021, 10:46 AM
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Re: Seriously

Just edited my post.
Doesn’t include family members, just Joe public.
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09-03-2021, 10:48 AM
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Can you imagine if some of our politicians cared what people “ thought” about them?
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09-03-2021, 11:10 AM
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Personally I would not be bothered about that, the general public, they don't know anything about me or who I am. I am not even remotely famous, it's only people in the public eye that get that sort of thing. People that the papers deem newsworthy.
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09-03-2021, 11:21 AM
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Re: Seriously

I'm not bothered really....we can't control how people perceive us. I care about how I think of myself, so I try and be a good person and leave it at that. Whatever anyone else thinks of me, is not my business.
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09-03-2021, 11:22 AM
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I care what others think of me in certain ways. Like I couldn't give a toss what somebody thinks me in a physical sense..my looks, my age, my clothes, my house or car..or how much money I have. I'm glad I don't because those things are often seen as important in a wealthy, competitive, materialistic place like Sydney. But I care what they think of me morally or intellectually. I care what somebody think of my character.
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09-03-2021, 11:23 AM
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Re: Seriously

Personally, I can honestly say, I don’t give one Iota of what people “ think” of or about me.
my intellect ,my wealth..that is not where my self worth is at.
But, that doesn’t mean to say that I don’t care about people.
 
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