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06-10-2011, 02:44 PM
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anyone ever gone to self assertive group

I did last year, I found it so interesting, I was nervous at first but found out that ever other person there was much the same, you could hear a pin drop when we were asked to stand up and introduce ourselves and say a few words. Thankfully when that was over everyone relaxed and at the end of first session you had to put your hand up to get a word in:lol
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06-10-2011, 02:54 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

Errrm.... no I think I may be assertive enough already, my middle name is 'Bossybreeches'
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06-10-2011, 03:00 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

Originally Posted by Meg ->
Errrm.... no I think I may be assertive enough already, my middle name is 'Bossybreeches'
Good for you, I am learning lol
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06-10-2011, 03:33 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

Not me ....... I am who I am!
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06-10-2011, 03:40 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

No I haven't Jean but would like to go to one. I let some people walk over me, interrupt me, use me in fact. My own fault I know but would love to be able to practice assertiveness in a safe place.
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

Originally Posted by maryl ->
No I haven't Jean but would like to go to one. I let some people walk over me, interrupt me, use me in fact. My own fault I know but would love to be able to practice assertiveness in a safe place.
I say go for it...
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

So you think it would be appropriate then? What happens there?
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06-10-2011, 04:09 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

I'm generally easy going, but can be assertive if necessary and throw a real hissy fit ... typical Taurus. I prefer avoiding conflict if I can.
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06-10-2011, 05:32 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

I don't need any of these groups or meetings to get back on track, I got an assertive Wife and she don't be long about setting me right when I stray from her chosen path
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06-10-2011, 06:38 PM
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Re: anyone ever gone to self assertive group

Originally Posted by jemflux ->
I don't need any of these groups or meetings to get back on track, I got an assertive Wife and she don't be long about setting me right when I stray from her chosen path
Jem I love your 'Wife stories' does she know you paint her as a battleaxe
 
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