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03-09-2018, 08:28 AM
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What makes you nervous/anxious?

As the title says, what makes you nervous or anxious?

I've just had to transfer some money online (two lots) and it always brings me out in a cold sweat when I have to do things like this.

By the time I'd finished my hands were sweating and shaking. I think I convince myself it'll go wrong for some reason, probably the pessimist in me showing

Another thing that makes me nervous is phoning someone I don't know. I hate doing it and I usually do it on a whim so I don't have time to think about it too much.

Aaaaand breathe
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03-09-2018, 08:32 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Not a lot !

Am not too keen on 'man made heights' - tall buildings, ladders etc., - but am OK with natural ones, such as mountains.

That's about all.
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03-09-2018, 08:54 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Not nervous/anxious, but I find booking a flight online a bit stressful. At least it was the first 2 or 3 times I did it.

I have a fear of being timed out, a fear of being tricked into an extra charge for something and then forgetting some vital detail. It's irrational I know.
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03-09-2018, 09:01 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

I suffer from health anxiety and always think the worst. I inherited this from my father, who in turn inherited it from his mother. However, unlike them I keep away from medics if I can possibly help it. I have a bad back at present, but there is nothing much that can be done about backs, so no point in troubling the doctor about it. I just have to grin and bear it. Give my husband his due, he is being helpful and doing the chores I am finding difficult at present. He came with me to the supermarket this morning to pack the bags and carry them to the car.
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03-09-2018, 09:04 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Originally Posted by Silver Tabby ->
Not a lot !

Am not too keen on 'man made heights' - tall buildings, ladders etc., - but am OK with natural ones, such as mountains.

That's about all.
I have a fear of heights and always get a bit nervous even getting in the loft but I've had to do it so many times in the last few years I think I've got used to it!

Originally Posted by d00d ->
Not nervous/anxious, but I find booking a flight online a bit stressful. At least it was the first 2 or 3 times I did it.

I have a fear of being timed out, a fear of being tricked into an extra charge for something and then forgetting some vital detail. It's irrational I know.
No, not irrational at all, doing this kind of stuff online can be scary, especially when it concerns payment of some kind.

I was just ordering some plants online and the confirmation page took yonks to load. I was panicking thinking the connection had dropped mid transaction. It hadn't, it was just me being impatient
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03-09-2018, 09:06 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Originally Posted by d00d ->
Not nervous/anxious, but I find booking a flight online a bit stressful. At least it was the first 2 or 3 times I did it.

I have a fear of being timed out, a fear of being tricked into an extra charge for something and then forgetting some vital detail. It's irrational I know.
I find booking flights stressful as well, checking the dates over and over again, I think it comes from the early days of flight booking when I mucked it up with British Airways and it ended up costing me money.

As for me it depends what mood I am in, some weeks everything stresses me, other weeks not much.

Phone calls stress me, meetings stress me most times and certain online situations have stressed me in the past.
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03-09-2018, 09:25 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

I get anxious going to the dentists, hospitals, meeting new people, Taking somebody out for the day in the car and getting lost, taking an exam of any kind....
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03-09-2018, 09:26 AM
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Making decisions .
It kills me.
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03-09-2018, 09:49 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Classroom based courses which is due to a bully teacher when I was in school. Flying, starting new jobs, answering phones when i.m not confident about a job. I.m s very anxious person and I wish I wasn't
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03-09-2018, 09:58 AM
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Re: What makes you nervous/anxious?

Originally Posted by tarantula ->
I suffer from health anxiety and always think the worst. I inherited this from my father, who in turn inherited it from his mother. However, unlike them I keep away from medics if I can possibly help it. I have a bad back at present, but there is nothing much that can be done about backs, so no point in troubling the doctor about it. I just have to grin and bear it. Give my husband his due, he is being helpful and doing the chores I am finding difficult at present. He came with me to the supermarket this morning to pack the bags and carry them to the car.
Self help, Tara, self help!
Do those stretches regularly!
 
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