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10-05-2018, 12:30 PM
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Listening ???

Why is it people listen and then put their own interpretation on what was said. I often find it very hard to get a direct answer to a direct question, politicians excel in this dept
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10-05-2018, 02:22 PM
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Re: Listening ???

Because they unconsciously translates what they hear into something they can understand. Do you speak to a lot of politicians?
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10-05-2018, 03:30 PM
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Re: Listening ???

Originally Posted by Rehab44 ->
Because they unconsciously translates what they hear into something they can understand. Do you speak to a lot of politicians?
I don't speak to them personally but I have heard them on TV and Radio programmes - so I know exactly what Realspeed means !
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10-05-2018, 03:37 PM
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Re: Listening ???

Don't ask a Direct Question, ask half a dozen Indirect Questions, then overlay the responses, some folks make a living doing that.
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10-05-2018, 04:41 PM
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Re: Listening ???

What I have done is, get up, go to the doctors, took the dog out, planted plants...

Sorry, I thought I was a politician!

What was the question again?
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10-05-2018, 05:32 PM
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Re: Listening ???

Originally Posted by Silver Tabby ->
I don't speak to them personally but I have heard them on TV and Radio programmes - so I know exactly what Realspeed means !
are you sure? Maybe you are unconsciously getting translating what yo think he meant.
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10-05-2018, 05:34 PM
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Re: Listening ???

Originally Posted by TessA ->
What I have done is, get up, go to the doctors, took the dog out, planted plants...

Sorry, I thought I was a politician!

What was the question again?
If you had added some dodgy maths I would immediately have recognised you as Diane Abbot
 



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