Re: Dithering
Is the name a common one, Deylon?
What if you had a third person, say a friend, pursue it further? It would enable you to do some research and verification before diving into a delicate situation.
Since your brother has died, and everyone you mentioned is older, mightn't it be less impactful than had the inquiry been made decades back?
As an adoptive mom, I understand the pangs that some having in trying to find their birth families.