Age gap

I recently had a business meeting with a (single) lady whom I found rather attractive. During the meeting I got the distinct feeling that this might be mutual. Things could well develop and I am wondering about asking her out.

Problem is that she is around 20 years my junior.

Now I don't think dating a 60-something bloke in good working order (as I am) is necessarily a bad thing for a lady in her 40s.

What, however, if things really work out? She could end up in her 60s looking after me in my doddery 80s. Am not sure I want somebody to finish up in that position though of course she is quite capable of making her own decisions.

Ok, perhaps I'm being a bit longtermist about this - but at 61 one maybe has to be.

Thoughts welcome please!

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Go for it!

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She will have worn you out long before you reach 80 mate.

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I don't know if that's comforting or not.

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Why are you asking us? Have you lost your marbles already?!!

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Look at the French President!!!

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@ Arty...You haven't even asked Her out yet so She may just say 'no thank You I already have a Daddy' '

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Are these you real doubts or are you a little appprehensive about talking on a forty year old ?

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Just ask her , why not , she can only say no , don't be offended if she does . Live one day at a time .

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"Why are you asking us? Have you lost your marbles already?!!"

I keep them in a box for when I really need them.