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05-05-2017, 08:10 PM
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Runs in threes

Ive had my 3 bits of bad news.Yesterday I was told that the cancerous growth under my arm has got bigger despite treatment, this afternoon my friend rang to say she will have to have her bowel removed & a bag fitted, now Ive had an e.mail from my nephews son to say his Dad [aged 76yrs]has suffered a major stroke & has only 48 hours to live.This has depressed me terribly.Ihope & pray no more bad news
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05-05-2017, 08:14 PM
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Very sad news
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05-05-2017, 08:15 PM
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Re: Runs in threes

Try not to dwell on the misfortunes of others it will only make your situation worse. I think that a positive mental attitude contributes greatly to someone's recovery.
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05-05-2017, 08:55 PM
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Re: Runs in threes

Originally Posted by deylon ->
Ive had my 3 bits of bad news.Yesterday I was told that the cancerous growth under my arm has got bigger despite treatment, this afternoon my friend rang to say she will have to have her bowel removed & a bag fitted, now Ive had an e.mail from my nephews son to say his Dad [aged 76yrs]has suffered a major stroke & has only 48 hours to live.This has depressed me terribly.Ihope & pray no more bad news
Sorry to hear your bad news Deylon. Life's a b*tch sometimes. As Judd says though, try and remain positive if you can - not easy I know.
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05-05-2017, 10:27 PM
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Re: Runs in threes

Thoughts are with you, a sad day indeed.
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05-05-2017, 10:43 PM
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Very sad.
Although I wouldn't give up hope for your nephew....they can't say he only has 48 hours....they just don't know.

They may have said the next 48 hours are critical....as every stroke is or maybe they doubt he'll live more than 48.

as long as he has a pulse he has a chance.

All the best to you, your friend and nephew..
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05-05-2017, 10:54 PM
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Re: Runs in threes

Originally Posted by Judd ->
Try not to dwell on the misfortunes of others it will only make your situation worse. I think that a positive mental attitude contributes greatly to someone's recovery.


I am so sorry all this has happened deylon.
I do think Judd's words above are wise though.
You can only wait and see. x
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05-05-2017, 11:46 PM
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So sorry to hear you've had so much bad news today Deylon, a very sad day for you.
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06-05-2017, 12:11 AM
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Deylon, l am sorry to hear your bad news.
Sometimes in life, when you think everything is going great, something happens and it pulls the rug from underneath you.
At the moment what has happened is a blip and things can only get better.
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06-05-2017, 01:01 AM
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so true things go in threes. Years ago My father died followed only a very few months later my mother passed away. In between Sue was having a threatened miscarriage all in the space of 4 months. Never thought it would stop, the bad news, and made me really deeply depressed. Oh birth was ok in the end
 
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