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09-06-2016, 07:56 AM
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Can I remain I after we become we?

Is it a battle to remain an individual, or is it easier to be assimilated.
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09-06-2016, 08:00 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

OMG Nom .... I don't even understand the question
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09-06-2016, 08:01 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

Mups said YES????!!!
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09-06-2016, 08:03 AM
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WOW !!! Maybe you're right Rhian ... I do hope so
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09-06-2016, 08:08 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

Ehh!...is that a WEE conundrum or has Your 'treat 'em mean keep 'em keen' tactics finally worked?
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09-06-2016, 08:12 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

It depends whether you're pliable or willing to conform.
You have to be careful though, sometimes you get moulded and merged without realising, you need to check yourself now and then!
Also, watch what they put in your tea!
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09-06-2016, 08:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Nom ->
Is it a battle to remain an individual, or is it easier to be assimilated.
If you mean when you are in relationship, then it is important to remain the individual you are, imo.

My husband and I are very different people, having nothing in common apart from our family, and that is how it has always been, which is fine by us.
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09-06-2016, 08:35 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

I am part of a' we' for a lot of the time but I'm an 'I' quite often too.

Very happy with the way things are.
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09-06-2016, 08:36 AM
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Where is the male perspective
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09-06-2016, 08:38 AM
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Re: Can I remain I after we become we?

Originally Posted by Rhian ->
Mups said YES????!!!


Oi I saw that. .
 
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