27-05-2016, 08:38 PM
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Woul You Mind?
Would you mind if your spouse/partners still wanted to still be in touch with past friends from childhood and previous workplaces?Some people watch each other like hawks and they hardly dare look at, never mind speak to a member of the opposite sex.
As we do not own each others that is unfair and stifling as well.
There should be enough trust in all situations and discipline to avoid temptation , which is rife, especially at the work place.
If people are unsure of themselves, they often read too much into a situation.
It is as possible to have a rapport and other friends outside marriage and not want to have an affair with them, or hide them in a cupboard!
28-05-2016, 07:37 AM
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Re: Woul You Mind?
Originally Posted by Azure
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It is as possible to have a rapport and other friends outside marriage and not want to have an affair with them, or hide them in a cupboard!
The above is the norm Azure .
Partners who are so outrageously jealous are not and have serious insecurity issues .
However if ones partner starts having too much rapport with a friend of the opposite sex it's time to worry .
You chose your partner because he /she is the number one person you want in your life .
Friends are friends and have their place which is secondary to the above .
28-05-2016, 07:57 AM
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Re: Woul You Mind?
Originally Posted by Muddy
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The above is the norm Azure .Partners who are so outrageously jealous are not and have serious insecurity issues .
However if ones partner starts having too much rapport with a friend of the opposite sex it's time to worry .
You chose your partner because he /she is the number one person you want in your life .
Friends are friends and have their place which is secondary to the above .
28-05-2016, 08:07 AM
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Re: Woul You Mind?
Originally Posted by Azure
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Would you mind if your spouse/partners still wanted to still be in touch with past friends from childhood and previous workplaces?Some people watch each other like hawks and they hardly dare look at, never mind speak to a member of the opposite sex.
As we do not own each others that is unfair and stifling as well.
There should be enough trust in all situations and discipline to avoid temptation , which is rife, especially at the work place.
If people are unsure of themselves, they often read too much into a situation.
It is as possible to have a rapport and other friends outside marriage and not want to have an affair with them, or hide them in a cupboard!
28-05-2016, 07:22 PM
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Re: Woul You Mind?
Originally Posted by OldGreyFox
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If you have a pet bird in a cage and one day you leave the cage door open and it flies away, it was never yours in the first place!
We once had a Parrot who escaped through an open door when he was let out of his cage to clean it.
He went to live in a Tree in the Avenue for two days
Later he was back sitting on top of his cage
I think he missed all that Sunflower Seed and Cuttle Fish Bone!
Cupboard Love!!
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