Re: Derogatory
Rightly or wrongly,
sometimes a "
derogatory' post" occurs only after a long, long period of provocation -
personal slurs, utter lies, deliberate misquotes or even racism.
If folk are not fully aware of that background and a
reaction appears in particular threads,
it may
seem that the victim is actually the aggressor.
It is very easy to
say "
sticks and stones" or "
water off a duck's back"
but if real harm has been done and real pain inflicted, it is
not always easy to "
keep one's powder dry".
Enough cliches for one post ?