Re: Making Excuses
I went to my brother in law's family Christmas dinner for the first time 3 years ago. Over 40 people there. No one so much as acknowledged me during the 4 hours my wife and I were there.
In addition, my (Vietnamese) wife and her equally Viet sister were coerced into doing
all the cooking and serving, with no help from the other (all Italian) women there. Nor was a place laid for us at any table.
In reality, my wife and her sister were just used as kitchen slaves. This just didn't work for me. We were the first to leave and, as a parting gesture, I thanked all of them for their lack of hospitality and help in the kitchen.
I later called my brother in law and told him in no uncertain terms what I thought of him and his extended family. He denied it all, but apologised for my "misunderstanding", and continues to invite my wife and I every year. To which I rudely reply, "Merry Xmas and f... you and your family".
Ok. I admit that I'm an unforgiving cretin, but I can live with that quite happily.