Re: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
Doesn't sound to me like you are the unreasonable one Mariana, people are too quick to complain to authorities these days when a quick word with a neighbour may be the best way to sort things out. Had an experience of that myself when we had Elsie puppy and the neighbours up stairs involved the council when if they had knocked our door we could have address her crying when we went out, how we were supposed to know when it only happened after we had left I could never understand. Mind we have since found out they bang our door and bang on our ceiling when we go out to deliberately upset the dogs tooRe: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
Sadly mariana I know how it feels to be dropped by long term friends , I feel for you .Re: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
First of all I have to say I hate the sound of barking dogs, especially when it goes on for any length of time. If there was a problem though I think I would confront the dog owner first then if no joy I would go to the appropriate authority.Re: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
Hi Mariana I am afraid when couples 'change' (due to divorce or bereavement) the dynamics of any friendships they may have had often seems to change too.Re: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
I think in your circumstances if you can muster up the courage I would approach the neighbours you think complained and in a friendly way ask them if they have heard your dogs barking because someone has complained and you are very concerned and could they let you know if it happens again. quoteRe: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
TO be honest--I am not really sure---as I had not been well, and was in bed early--so yes, they could have been barking all that time, although I did not hear them. --but it was not 2.00 or 3.00 in the morning when all is said and done. Thet had never contacted me before about a problem.Re: Am i unreasonable---or are they ?
A lot of dogs bark at this time of year scared by fireworks - I think if it was a one off they complained about they are being downright nasty. Perhaps they should have wondered whether you were OK ? and popped round to check rather than call the authorities.
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