Am I being unfair?
My friend and I have known a 95 year old man for many years, he is now been in a residential home not far from us for a couple of years, we used to go to see him every so often together , but now my friend is making excuses not to go , she says she feels depressed after visiting the home.I have gone on my own a couple of times and he always asks how she is. It makes me angry that she wont put herself out to see him,he has no family ,only a few friends. I too feel sad and depressed when I visit, he is a lovely gent,and I feel my friend could /should make the effort to visit him ,we dont go regularly or often, although both in our 70's /80's we are both younger than him, and he cant get out of the home .Am I being unfair expecting her to visit ?