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04-05-2015, 05:19 PM
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How do you handle bullies , or have you been a victim of bullying
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04-05-2015, 05:30 PM
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I had to take care of meself as a child and onwards - no bullies can touch me emotionally or otherwise - they are 'nothing' to me ......
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04-05-2015, 05:34 PM
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My old boss bullied a younger member of staff , he would find any excuss to be little him , or give him the horrible jobs , and alway under mineing him , it come to the point I had words to the boss and went to his boss , but the lad that was been bullied had to make the complaint , he did and I wrote a statement to , they moved our old boss to a different area , only to be told he bulling a member of staff up there
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04-05-2015, 05:35 PM
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I cannot bear the thought of children being bullied. I was bullied as a child because I was so shy. It was horrible. You never forget it. I look at adult bullies and think "what a pathetic specimen you are".
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04-05-2015, 05:37 PM
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In my adult life I never been bullied , it just wouldnt happen to me , the size I am , seems to be more bullies online than in real life to me ,
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04-05-2015, 05:42 PM
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I was a battered Wife 40 odd Yrs ago,so You could say I was pretty much a victim of a bully,took Me 7 Yrs to get out of it and have never looked back,

As for on-line bullying...well..I've made a point of not arguing with eejits as it would just bring Me down to Their level.
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04-05-2015, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Myra ->
I cannot bear the thought of children being bullied. I was bullied as a child because I was so shy. It was horrible. You never forget it. I look at adult bullies and think "what a pathetic specimen you are".


my daughter was bullied for a short while , alway remember we went to the parents house to try and sort things out , the bully parents just said tuff , your daughter needs to toughing up , that was their attidue
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04-05-2015, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by May ->
I was a battered Wife 40 odd Yrs ago,so You could say I was pretty much a victim of a bully,took Me 7 Yrs to get out of it and have never looked back,

As for on-line bullying...well..I've made a point of not arguing with eejits as it would just bring Me down to Their level.


Sorry to hear that may , my mum was battered things I witness will never leave me
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04-05-2015, 05:44 PM
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When Grace was bullied the school were fantastic sat them all down and talked it through, after a rocky start the girls are now firm friends. The school encouraged us to have her round for tea etc and they were right it worked a treat.

I have my own problems with my employer as people know but I refuse to let it get me down these days just be happy as I can be as that seems to irritate them more than if I was beaten down by them.

Online ? well have met a few I let one get me down but not any more I give as good as I get these days and refuse to worry about it all. Realised I had to toughen up a bit as no one else was going to help me.
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04-05-2015, 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted by May ->
I was a battered Wife 40 odd Yrs ago,so You could say I was pretty much a victim of a bully,took Me 7 Yrs to get out of it and have never looked back,

As for on-line bullying...well..I've made a point of not arguing with eejits as it would just bring Me down to Their level.


Sorry about the domestic abuse May. Just awful.

Yes, I think I'm getting used to eejits.
 
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