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13-03-2014, 08:28 PM
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Loss of a daughter

The last two weeks have been the worst in my life as my daughter passed away on the 28th February and was cremated on 7th March in Sydney.

Having been a teacher of children with disabilities in England, Japan, Australia, America and New Zealand, she had friends from all over the world. Some people came to the funeral from most of the countries and we had a webcast done so that those who couldn't attend could watch and feel that they were part of the service.

She wanted an Eco funeral, no flowers and a cardboard coffin. So we arranged to have a white coffin delivered to the house and invited all her friends and their children to a Celebration of her Life and everyone helped paint whatever they wanted to on the coffin. She would have loved it.

I will miss her so much as we kept in contact every couple of days on Skype as Sydney is 1,000 miles from where we live. She leaves behind a 3 year old daughter and husband.

Arrived home to find my son's best mate had also succumbed to cancer, 42 years old so we have his funeral next week to attend as well now.

Life seems so unfair at times. 2 lovely people who had so much to live for.
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13-03-2014, 08:54 PM
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Sandi I don't know what to say..
I am so very sorry to learn about your daughter and your son's friend.

Life as you say can be very unfair xhugsx
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13-03-2014, 08:58 PM
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Nothing can compare with the loss of a child...

My heart goes out to you Sandi.
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13-03-2014, 09:03 PM
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So very sorry Sandi, I truly feel for you.
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13-03-2014, 09:17 PM
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I'm so sorry
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13-03-2014, 09:22 PM
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So so sorry for you Sandi I hope you can all get through this terrible time
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13-03-2014, 10:24 PM
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Sandi, I'm so very sorry to read of your loss of your dear daughter also for the loss of your son's friend

My thoughts are with you and your family *hugs* x
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13-03-2014, 11:26 PM
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Oh Sandi, the loss of a child is so hard to comprehend, just the most awful thing that can happen. I am so sorry for your loss and that your son's friend lost his battle too. My heart goes out to you.
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13-03-2014, 11:28 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Sandi.
It must be very hard for you and the little one, also your son's friend.
We are thinking of you xxx
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13-03-2014, 11:36 PM
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My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family Sandi. Nobody expects to outlive our children. Why must such awful things happen to nice people?
 
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