10-02-2014, 10:13 PM
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Inlaws ...Ahhhhhh
OK who here have wanted to see their in-laws ****??? well say no more ....My father in Law has never seen eye to eye with me ....today he hit the lower of all lows ...when i got engaged to my now wife ...his re-action was ...I have brought her up now its her turn to ,look after ME !!...When my son was born with Cystic Fibrosis ...He Said I gave him the germ ..he would not accept that it was genetic ....He has always tried to poison my children against me by teaching them swear and slanderous words about me...fortunately they never listened ...Today was the lowest of the low ....In April it is my wife's 50th birthday...he is refusing to come or bring his wife (my wife's mother) unless my wife agrees to not bring me ..So what have i done for him ..gave his only daughter a life , gave him 2 grandchildren ...SAVED HIS LIFE TWICE helped his wife when she was seriously ill .....Well forgive me but next time he can lay on the floor and croak....I am fuming , My wife is in tears ....
10-02-2014, 11:31 PM
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Well if he refuses to go without laying down those restrictions I wouldn't want him there anyway UKM. I don't see how it can possibly work when there is so much bad feeling.Without knowing all the facts it's difficult to judge, but at the mo, I agree with Alice, above, and think you might be better off planning something else for her instead.
11-02-2014, 12:10 AM
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OMG how have I put up with him for over 30 years ..I will never know ...He has hated me from day 1 .....because he is Jealous ..he has been a skiver and benefit scrounger all his life ..he has no friends ....He is a wife beater ..we know that but we have to prove it ....the day me and my wife got engaged he demanded that she was not allowed to go out ....He dictated that she shouldn't have children..he said i was no good because ...welll i was better than him .....I made a life through work , he scrounged his via lies and benefits ...i got married in my time ...he was forced too ....he rules his family through violence and fear...even now my wife is scared of him ....but it is still her father....may he RIP asap
11-02-2014, 10:07 AM
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I detest bullies, but I would think the main victims of this bully's behaviour are his wife and children, at least you can choose whether to have contact with him, whereas anyone still living in the same house as him are the one's that need help... surely there is help available through social services if they could find the courage to ask for it..
I hope for their sake that they could..
11-02-2014, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted by plantman
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I detest bullies, but I would think the main victims of this bully's behaviour are his wife and children, at least you can choose whether to have contact with him, whereas anyone still living in the same house as him are the one's that need help... surely there is help available through social services if they could find the courage to ask for it.. I hope for their sake that they could..
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