Re: am i to old
I understand your frustration. Is there any sign these kids will move out on their own in a few years? Might be worth waiting til they do and then perhaps you and your partner can rebuild your relationship and have many good years together.Re: am i to old
Re: am i to old
Re: am i to old
Feel sorry for you glnwelsh. I am over 60 and I cant stand the noise of kids all day long. Saying that I brought two sons up by myself. I think when you get older your patience does seem to wain.Re: am i to old
I love my Grandchildren to bits and would give my life for them, would I live with them No bloody chance, having said that they behave completely differently at my house or at their own if they catch my eye. They argue with each other constantly, they're noisy,they play fight with their father (my son) they're 15,13 and 12 and the last one's a girl. They know what they can get away with at home and are continually testing the boundaries, whereas they know my boundaries won't change. Do I take it you've not had children of your own and you've not been with your partner very long (as in you've not been part of bringing them up). I think you'd be better off out of it, cos it doesn't get any easier and they may be around forever.Re: am i to old
Yeah gin, they're right i think, if you're considering moving out then it may be best to just tell your partner that you feel you're not making the most of these later years and need some space to be yourself, you never know ,you could end up being better friends/ lovers if you're not living together and I'm sure your lady feels the tension too, good luckRe: am i to old
thanks everyone for your advice, yes i have 2 daughers of my own (38+34) both flown the nest when in their 20's, far more independent than my partners girls (20+18), i've read the riot act to them,threatened to throw them out,even asked the grandparents to have them,but all to no avail,the air in our home is very tense when the girls are about,ok when just the 2 of us,so i can see it coming to a head soon!
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