Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
Christmas is supposed to be about caring and sharing Lizzie, but unfortunately that includes one's offspring once they've flown the nest, so don't fall out with her but work the long game and invite her now for your next year's special Christmas event. She's obviously a popular lady, but so can you be I'll bet....Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
Our son does year and year about, with us and his wife's family.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
My married Daughter always comes to us at Christmas with her husband and two kids, it's their own choice, my Son, who's wife is from Rome, spends one Christmas in Rome and the next one at home with us. the way I see it is they have their own Families now and can do whatever they wish at festive times, if they chose to stay at home or keep going to 'The other side' that would be their own doing and we would respect their choice, we as their parents slowly fade into the background, that's perfectly natural and we accept it.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
I am a member of a family of 10. Some are now deceased but always remembered. Each of us trade off years so as not to feign favoritism. Then families usually start their own traditions and become the hosts. It's called building a tradition. My beginning post was more of a rant than anything else.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
I can relate to the sadness you feel Lizzie but try not to give up hope that things can change, keep inviting her regardless and try not to fall out with her over her apparent thoughtlessness...
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