11-12-2020, 04:03 PM
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To try & keep his memories alive I tell him stuff that he did as a kid that he couldn't remember.
I would say it was a love that grew on my side but for Tony he knew instantly that he wanted to marry me.
I love him more now that he's old & vulnerable and relying on me for everything, than I did when he was young & fit & full of testosterone..
I have a lovely family but he is my life..
11-12-2020, 04:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I knew straight away she was the one despite already being married.
I know exactly what you are saying here,LD,you can’t help who you fall in love with..happy you ended up with your now wife,
11-12-2020, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by carol
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I know him better than he knows himself. To try & keep his memories alive I tell him stuff that he did as a kid that he couldn't remember.
I would say it was a love that grew on my side but for Tony he knew instantly that he wanted to marry me.
I love him more now that he's old & vulnerable and relying on me for everything, than I did when he was young & fit & full of testosterone..
I have a lovely family but he is my life..
I welled up reading this Carol.very touching to read.
11-12-2020, 04:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Xandra
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Those I would have thought of as The One at 15 , 25 or even 35 would not appeal to me now so I am of the opinion that humans are not designed to be with the same person for life.
Thank you for your honesty,Xandra, I believe personally in true love,a love that will never die between a couple.
11-12-2020, 04:31 PM
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Originally Posted by paula
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It wasn't love at first sight but I liked him, the love grewI felt safe with him, would trust him with my life
after 52 very happy years, if I lost him no one else would ever take his place
(he does get on my nerves at times...and I know I get on his too )
Yup!...totally get that! thank you Paula.
11-12-2020, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Besoeker
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For us it was second around. STAG as it is sometimes called.Married at Gretna Green Black Blacksmith, twenty years ago.
As the Seekers put it:
"There's a new world somewhere
They call the promised land
And I'll be there someday
If you could hold my hand
I still need you there beside me
No matter what I do
For I know I'll never find another you"
Or another ewe..............
Did you really get married at Gretna Green?
Happy that you’re happy with your wife.
11-12-2020, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Mags
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No, didn't even give it a thought. No
If you have to ask yourself that question, you aren't in love with that person.
After 47 years, yes I believe it and no, I would never want to find another.
11-12-2020, 04:38 PM
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Originally Posted by pauline3
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Lovely Mags, I can always remember my driving instructor saying to me in a conversation, you will know when you are in love and he was right, I have been married x2 I loved my ex husbands,but I know now I was never in love with them, they weren’t in love with me either.
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