27-09-2017, 07:52 AM
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Re: Power
Originally Posted by Silver Tabby
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This is an interesting thread, Bakerman, have you considered those who are adept at manipulation - that is also a form of power, if a less obvious one.
Interesting idea. Could you elaborate on manipulators.
27-09-2017, 09:06 AM
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Re: Power
Originally Posted by Nom
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Water and wind are soft, yet can wield tremendous power, the supplicant may one day be unleashed if ill treat. Raise the Fyrd.
Perfect Nom.
That was the word I was trying to dredge up out of the dim recesses of my mind ---supplicant. If you don't mind I'll be using that, somewhere in my thread ?Fyrd, now that's olde English ! Nice.
27-09-2017, 09:12 AM
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Re: Power
Originally Posted by Tpin
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Some can ask a question where there appears to be an option(yes/no) but can manipulate the answer to suit, with a little intimidation in the tone.
Yes, now that I think about it, you are right. Wow ! Flashback to my step-father.
Nasty !
27-09-2017, 09:26 AM
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Re: Power
Power is not black and white. There are informal networks that influence how much power someone has. There is also personality, charisma, the power of persuasion, charm. A smile and flattery can work wonders if the person smiling is skilled at getting what they want. The manner in which we communicate is also key and there is a great deal of power in silence. By that I mean knowing when to talk and knowing when to create a silent space. This can make your adversary nervous and disarmed. I am not very good at this myself, but know a couple of friends who use it very effectively. Being calmer and more self-possessed than your adversary is one of the most effective ways of getting what you want. Those who lose their cool are least likely to get ahead, unless they are psychopaths or narcissistic manipulators (which deserves a whole topic on its own!).
27-09-2017, 09:57 AM
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Re: Power
Originally Posted by Julie1962
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Some people have power and use it wisely others should never have been given it s they use it to bully and belittle.
Julie can you think of a specific situation where a bully is asking ? It's late at night and I'm a bit tired but it seems to me that bullies don't ask, they order.
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