Re: Cyberbullying - Trolls
Originally Posted by
spitfire
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According to the video clip, Trolls are self governing, when they get into full Troll mode, their fingernails extend so far, precluding typing, at which point the Troll looked rather distressed.
Can't say that has happened to me yet so I can't be a troll
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What bothers me about this cyberbullying - troll stuff lark is where do you pass from disliking someone (s) to being a bully / troll - if ever? I mean some people I just don't like - and they me - so arguments and name calling are bound to ensue. It could be on a particular forum you might dislike quite a lot of people and appear vindictive to others who happen to take part in the same thread.
I will be honest I really dislike having to hold my tongue on any issue or with anyone over anything. I speak out regardless of any repercussions but...who then dictates you are a troll? Seems to me the only regulation that can be imposed on someone like myself is self regulation where you consider your own behaviour cos someone imposing sanctions will just make things worse.
I think the whole troll / wumming stuff is confusing on a forum such as this one. We are just very different people airing our views. We are bound to get clashes of personalities and differences of opinion. I suppose where it becomes personal is the line drawn in the sand and that is already in place here so everything seems fair to me.
To sum up I don't think I, or anyone, is a troll or wum on this forum but just people who are from all walks of life, with very different attitudes and ideas - all healthy it seems to me (well bar for my attitude to a few lately
- currently undergoing self regulation
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Originally Posted by
BowieEyes
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You MKJ started the thread which I wanted to join in with because of my Leeds connection as well as having empathy for anyone killed by a dog. Then for no reason that I could see from the thread
you started on Julie and sorry but I could not understand that.
Yes, I realise that I was far too strong in my replies to Julie in the thread mentioned and have thought long and hard about it since. Julie is obviously a nice woman but this isn't the first time in my life I have taken a dislike to someone quite intensely, but as I pointed out I don't dislike Julie overall. After some self analyses as to why I take umbrage in dog / religion type threads with Julie it is to do with intractability - a closed mind. This just drives me up the wall and I can't really find a cure for it. When I come across it I just want to lash out. This isn't Julie's failing but my own so now I know what it is I should be able to avoid such lapses in etiquette in the future - but I wouldn't put money on it as it is just the way I am. Anyway the mods will step in if I go overboard...