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I have just spoken to a friend on the phone and he told me to just pull my head out of my *rs*. He said that we had been divorced for many years and that death was just a part of life. He said my exhusband would never have made peace with either me or his children so just get on with it. I have enough problems without making any more. It has made me sit up and think that he is probably right.Re: Quite Unexpected
I have kept quiet on this topic until I read your last post Cookiecate - and I agree with your friend.Re: Quite Unexpected
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Cookiecate, A friend of mine went through hell during her marriage to an alcoholic. She left him twice but went back when he promised to seek help but never did. She eventually divorced him as she was tired of him wetting the bed,throwing up and even walloping her at times. She went into a hostel with the kids and had to live there for a year until she was re housed. She worked darn hard to buy that house and eventually re married yet when her ex was dying from cirrosis of the liver she went to see him and attended his funeral with her hubby for closure. Maybe thats how you felt but like my friend,try to move on now. You have your life to live CC. All the best. CD.
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