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Do you find some people make friends with you if you're useful to them. I had a friend who would keep giving me things because she wanted me to drive her places, we didn't really like each other and she got very demanding, I hated the way she would try to force things on me, got fed up with being expected to go where she wanted to go. The last straw came when we were at a mutual friend's husband's funeral and she insisted on leaving early to go to a garden centre!
A woman down the lane has been trying to be friends with me ever since she found out I can sew!
Yes, they're called fair weather friends. Can't be doing with them. I couldn't use someone.
I remember a colleague at work saying "if you have to give a thought of questioning about your " friends" then they're not you friends". So true. If they continue this carry on then they don't deserve your friendship.