21-12-2020, 09:43 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by pauline3
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Thinking about it, I don’t believe I would make a stand at being verbally abused, it happens, let alone make a case about it, they need to learn to deal with it, why the need to involve others.You can’t be wrapped in cotton wool, get out there deal with it by yourself as an adult.
In my day it was "Sticks and Stones".....
22-12-2020, 01:16 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by OldGreyFox
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Absolutely Pauline, some people need to grow a pair!In my day it was "Sticks and Stones".....
The reality is that names can and do hurt many people in many cases and can cause people to gang up against someone resulting in real shtick. Trust me, I know these things.
However if it's a case of not liking what people call you, that's a very different matter. Live with it, but to continually face ridicule then either ignore it, grow thick skin / scar tissue, or repeat "dilligaf" to yourself.
Some of you may need to Google "dilligaf" - but in most cases with you guys I doubt it!
22-12-2020, 01:24 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by The Artful Todger
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Sticks and stones etc --- The reality is that names can and do hurt many people in many cases and can cause people to gang up against someone resulting in real shtick. Trust me, I know these things.
However if it's a case of not liking what people call you, that's a very different matter. Live with it, but to continually face ridicule then either ignore it, grow thick skin / scar tissue, or repeat "dilligaf" to yourself.
Some of you may need to Google "dilligaf" - but in most cases with you guys I doubt it!
That is a good point “ continued ridicule”..unless you know how to deal with it,or understand why some people ridicule, it’s a tough one,..I do know what it is like to be continually ridiculed it can and does do a lot of damage,.....obviously it’s different for everyone ( being ridiculed).....never take it personally now in hindsight, ain’t life interesting.
Understanding it was the key for me.
I dilligaf now,😂🤣😅, as long as I’m happy with my behaviour, no one has the right to tell anyone how to behave or what to say.
You can only wake yourself up to your own behaviour!.
Some peoples are good at pointing the finger at others,when in reality they need to take a good look at themselves, which I believe we have all pointed the finger.
22-12-2020, 01:26 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by The Artful Todger
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Sticks and stones etc --- The reality is that names can and do hurt many people in many cases and can cause people to gang up against someone resulting in real shtick. Trust me, I know these things.
However if it's a case of not liking what people call you, that's a very different matter. Live with it, but to continually face ridicule then either ignore it, grow thick skin / scar tissue, or repeat "dilligaf" to yourself.
Some of you may need to Google "dilligaf" - but in most cases with you guys I doubt it!
To be honest, it doesn't bother me in the slightest, especially as I can't see the connection anyway. I don't like pork products.
22-12-2020, 01:55 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by The Artful Todger
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Sticks and stones etc --- The reality is that names can and do hurt many people in many cases and can cause people to gang up against someone resulting in real shtick. Trust me, I know these things.
However if it's a case of not liking what people call you, that's a very different matter. Live with it, but to continually face ridicule then either ignore it, grow thick skin / scar tissue, or repeat "dilligaf" to yourself.
Some of you may need to Google "dilligaf" - but in most cases with you guys I doubt it!
22-12-2020, 02:00 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by OldGreyFox
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Where does name calling and harmless banter end, and bullying begin though Todger.....
Harmless banter to you?...what is harmless banter?...harmless to you maybe,
We are all affected differently OGF.
When it becomes relentless, it can and does wear a person down.( constant ridicule)
22-12-2020, 02:04 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by OldGreyFox
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Where does name calling and harmless banter end, and bullying begin though Todger.....
22-12-2020, 02:05 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by pauline3
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Harmless banter to you?...what is harmless banter?...harmless to you maybe,We are all affected differently OGF.
When it becomes relentless, it can and does wear a person down.( constant ridicule)
22-12-2020, 03:43 PM
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Re: Freedom of speech ruling
Originally Posted by pauline3
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Harmless banter to you?...what is harmless banter?...harmless to you maybe,We are all affected differently OGF.
When it becomes relentless, it can and does wear a person down.( constant ridicule)
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