Re: Thank you.
This violation of your property and person is unbelievable and I am sorry it happened to you.
A few suggestions:
First, you are tech/computer savvy so put a camera that points to the front door and exposed areas of the house and put a sign to that effect on the front window. If you don't want the camera, you can still purchase window decals that say the place is under video surveillance. Social media is a powerful tool and criminals are scared their photos and video could get out there in a heartbeat.
Second, there is no reason to answer your door to strangers. In this day and age, I always have advanced warning of friends and delivery people who are stopping by. The other night (around nine) a woman rang my bell with some credentials of some sort hanging around her neck while a man held back and stood by his car. There is no legitimate reason anyone who is not in distress should ring someone's doorbell that late, so I didn't answer and off she went. If it was important - she would have called. I turned the light on and off so they knew someone was in the house as they left - in case they were looking the place over. This is the one situation in which it might appear that I am rude, but so be it - better off safe and disparaged - than reading about how friendly I was in the obituary section
. Also consider putting up lock/chain so you can partially open the door if you think that is necessary.
Always go to the door with your phone in either the camera setting or the emergency phone number (ours is 911) that it would only take one press of the button to notify the police.
Consider organizing in your neighborhood. We have neighborhood watch programs here and put signs up to that effect. We meet once a year, discuss issues (like overgrown bushes or streetlight concerns, good security companies, equipment, etc.), and set up our emergency contact and call lists. Our neighborhood is crime free, and I think it is a result of our being vigilant. We sometimes ask a police officer to come and speak so they can update us on the latest scams and crimes - with ideas on how to combat them. We've also become great friends as a result of this excuse to get together once a year. You like parties - so have one!
I know your health and your son's health has been frustrating and frightening this last year, and you have been victim to some nasty people out there, but don't let it get you down. This is yet another reason to fight your way back from your illness. You are the man you have always been and there is no reason that you have to stand by and be taken advantage of. You could have been hurt like your son was, Swimfeeders, so please be careful. You also have your honorary grandkids to think about so get busy and get safe.