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Originally Posted by AnnieS ->
Beautiful piece. I find peace in my garden, especially listening to the dawn chorus and watching the light changing as the sun rises or just tending to plants. Walks with the dog as the seasons change. Long hikes with friends in the countryside. On the yoga mat with a candle (for some reason this was particularly serene when it was pouring down the other day). Reading a good book in a scented bath while sipping a long latte (a Weekend morning ritual). Baking cakes or cooking a complicated meal (you can see and smell the results as you go)

We sound a lot alike, Annie.
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The world is filled with hate at the moment and its easy to be swept along with it. I have this poem hanging up in my house and I read it from time to time, it is a good lesson for life, it contains wise words and good advice. Reading it helps me feel calm, it helps soothe my spirit when I think the world around me has lost its mind.

Take a minute, read it, breathe and remember a better world begins in our own decisions.

"Desiderata"

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann c.1920
I was OK until it reached that point.
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07-06-2017, 11:32 PM
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"When I was a child, I thought like a child". For me, I need read no further, because I am still a child.
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We sound a lot alike, Annie.
Indeed we do!
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07-06-2017, 11:49 PM
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Another thing I like to recite is John Donne's "No man is an island.....it tolls for thee". Don't know why, but it's settling. As is Keats' On Fame sonnet - "how fever'd is the man who cannot look upon his mortal days with temperate blood ..."
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08-06-2017, 06:45 AM
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Originally Posted by gasman ->
I was OK until it reached that point.
I am not religious. So I read that with the emphasis on whatever you concive him to be I see this as being the freedom to believe or not but to find peace in your decision.

I grew up with a father searching for 'the truth' we had every religion under the sun come through our house as he examined each one trying to find some peace in his soul.

It never worked..and I think that is what made me realise that my peace must come from within myself , the answers are in me and not some vague but omnipotent being.
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Lovely words, thank you Cass.


Originally Posted by Nom ->
I find being out in the countryside and sinking in to my environment works for me.
Originally Posted by Mups ->
I also remember feeling enormous tranquility watching and smelling the sea too.
I can relate to both of those - nature in all her glory is very healing.
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08-06-2017, 07:48 AM
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I particularly love the very last line Cass - "Be cheerful, strive to be happy."

My yoga teacher always drums into us "Think positive, always think positive." She says never allow ourselves to have negative thoughts.

Best place for me to find peace is in my garden, surrounded by my beautiful roses, or somewhere out in the countryside on my own with my dogs.

I also remember feeling enormous tranquility watching and smelling the sea too.
Nick Tilsley would not agree.
 
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