Re: Respect of persons
I don't go to a lot of work's night out's, but you can bet your bottom dollar that you'll hear all about it anyway. Folk comes back tittle tattling about who did what, who drank what, who said what to who, who wore what. It irritates me.Re: Respect of persons
Re: Respect of persons
I too used to be put in that position Meg where if you went out for a meal I always bought what I could afford, as I lived on my own and did not earn much money, and you could bet your life by the end of it they split the bill between the group, in those days I was always too shy to speak up, but i soon learnt to get my purse out and put the amount i needed to on the table.Re: Respect of persons
Re: Respect of persons
Yes, it's okay for some folk who are well off. They don't have a clue what it's like to have to be watching your money. I've been in the same boat. When I first joined my walking group, after the walks we all went to the pub. They used to take turns in buying rounds of drinks. I was skint and in a homeless unit at that time and had to watch every penny. I told them I would buy my own. Which I did. I didn't want to look miserable, but I just couldn't afford it, but also wanted to join in with the rest of them after the walk. I'm better off now than I was, but remember what it was like to be in a different position from them financially.Re: Respect of persons
Re: Respect of persons
Cliques are a fact of life in the workplace. I've seen them everywhere I've worked in the last 40 years... I've not participated in a single one, preferring to have one or two friends at work and leaving the nights out and socializing to others. I don't believe I have ever gone to an extracurricular after work activity. It's just not my thing. Sometimes I was asked out of courtesy... sometimes not because they knew I wouldn't go anyway. The bad thing about cliques is that they can get mean. I have personally done battle with a few.... and won. These people are nothing alone, and need their posse with them to feel really brave. Like most bullies I may add.Re: Respect of persons
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