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In that case Jem, guidelines must be put in place by your daughter and she should explain these to her hubby. With the greatest respect, your daughter probably isn't a young woman any longer and needs her rest after working all day.Re: Family Unmoveables.
I remember in the 70s our in-laws were making a 'state' visit to our home. Our eldest was three and I was heavily pregnant with our second. We lived in a house on the boarding school campus where my husband was a teacher and house master. He was on duty on a Sunday afternoon, one of the lads had hurt themselves and as I was the only person who was available to accompany him to hospital. I left our little one in the care of her grandparents. When I got back a few hours later, well past her bedtime, I discovered that not only wasn't she in bed, she hadn't had her tea! Her grandparents were sitting their with disapproval all over their faces saying they expected their evening meal at 6pm and were hungry. It was our duty to entertain them when they visited us. You can see why they weren't welcome!Re: Family Unmoveables.
Now then, I find that disgusting. Sorry, but I do. Where I come from, families muck in with each other.Re: Family Unmoveables.
My late father-in-law used to write unpleasant letters to my husband listing his short comings, he became atheist after he realised his fundamentalist Christian upbringing had no basis in reality. The letters were signed 'Your Father' and his full name, just like one would have done in Victorian times!Re: Family Unmoveables.
Only happened once to us.Re: Family Unmoveables.
what happened to an Englishmans home is his castle? I only have invited guests and if any have ever shown an inclination to overstay I have just said "no we agreed .the weekend etc" they just go and I wouldnt invite them again. You have to be honest and tell them they are overstaying. I learned to stop letting people walk over me years agoRe: Family Unmoveables.
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I'm with you on this Bob.
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