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19-11-2015, 12:39 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by emjay ->
if you are, you should stick together.
:-d:-d:-d:-d:-d

Smiles on strike?
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19-11-2015, 01:17 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by dukeofearl ->
:-d:-d:-d:-d:-d

Smiles on strike?
Would seem so.
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19-11-2015, 01:27 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

I rarely leave a message on anyone's profile page when I view it.
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19-11-2015, 01:50 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Message to Various Members who will recognise themselves I'm sure.

Don't you think that rather than post publicly about your personal differences and perceived slights which may well have been wrongly perceived, let's face it, it might be a good idea to drop the person a private message rather than air your dirty knickers publicly... Especially if they've arrived by pigeon post from another forum?

Just my opinion.

Also it might be diplomatic in this case to sent the honourable member a link to the particular thread which explains the recent health issues.
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19-11-2015, 02:18 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

It doesn't always do to get involved with others squabbles but agree with you ruthio. A new forum, a new beginning.
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19-11-2015, 02:24 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by ruthio ->
Message to Various Members who will recognise themselves I'm sure.

Don't you think that rather than post publicly about your personal differences and perceived slights which may well have been wrongly perceived, let's face it, it might be a good idea to drop the person a private message rather than air your dirty knickers publicly... Especially if they've arrived by pigeon post from another forum?

Just my opinion.

Also it might be diplomatic in this case to sent the honourable member a link to the particular thread which explains the recent health issues.
Yes it would be a good idea if new members were allowed to send pm,s , but as daft rules stop people from doing sensible things like pm's, complain to the person/s who made the daft rule.
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19-11-2015, 02:26 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by ruthio ->
Message to Various Members who will recognise themselves I'm sure.

Don't you think that rather than post publicly about your personal differences and perceived slights which may well have been wrongly perceived, let's face it, it might be a good idea to drop the person a private message rather than air your dirty knickers publicly... Especially if they've arrived by pigeon post from another forum?

Just my opinion..


I agree ruthio. I wasn't keen how the forum in general got blamed and called cliquey over a private spat though.
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19-11-2015, 02:32 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by ruthio ->
Message to Various Members who will recognise themselves I'm sure.

Don't you think that rather than post publicly about your personal differences and perceived slights which may well have been wrongly perceived, let's face it, it might be a good idea to drop the person a private message rather than air your dirty knickers publicly... Especially if they've arrived by pigeon post from another forum?

Just my opinion.

Also it might be diplomatic in this case to sent the honourable member a link to the particular thread which explains the recent health issues.
Hear Hear Ruth Well Said....
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19-11-2015, 02:36 PM
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Re: Unwelcoming and hostile

Originally Posted by ruthio ->
Message to Various Members who will recognise themselves I'm sure.

Don't you think that rather than post publicly about your personal differences and perceived slights which may well have been wrongly perceived, let's face it, it might be a good idea to drop the person a private message rather than air your dirty knickers publicly... Especially if they've arrived by pigeon post from another forum?

Just my opinion.

Also it might be diplomatic in this case to sent the honourable member a link to the particular thread which explains the recent health issues.
I agree Ruthio and while new people may not have access to Personal Messages they do have access to Visitors Messages
on their profile pages

Visitors Messages may not be as private as Personal Messages but as some members have no problem with
airing their differences on the forums for all to see I don't know why this should be a problem.


Now could people please keep their personal arguments off the forum.
Thank you


ETA I think this thread is done so it is being locked.
 
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