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I used to be, too big hearted for my own good. Boy, did folks take advantage of that. I still have empathy, but I'm way more cautious about showing it. Burned too many times.
I read an article yesterday and it says you can either be selfish or selfless. Selfless meaning you're actually not looking after your own needs, or yourself. Oh well . I suppose that is true.