Re: Working Class
I'm not sure if I'm right on this...
but I think it used to be that if the father's job was manual then you were deemed to be a working class family.
Upper class was when the work involved the brain and middle class a bit of both.
However these days the lines are very blurred. There is old money upper class, benefits families, women in higher ranked jobs, all sorts of things making us the classless society we are supposed to be. To me, class is not about the job or pay or heritage... It's about having the social graces without necessarily having had the material wealth.
My father could not go to Uni like his brothers because his mother died when he was 18. He was as academic as they were but accepted his fate without complaint and made a career for himself, eventually, in the petrochemical industry, as an Industrial Chemist. He helped make unleaded petrol and I was always very proud of him for that.
On paper we were lower middle class and we were really quite poor in comparison to our friends but love and patience and care and attention were things we never went without.
Those things are what has made me and my brothers the successful people we are. We have the ability to remain grounded, empathetic, confident but humble and most of all contented. Love, family, friends and kindness are what make the world go around.
I'm sure any self-made entrepreneur would probably vouch for that!