Do you think you would be a different person if you had married a different person.

I think I would have been, he has been a good man for me , having said that I have been good woman for him[most of the time].
Chuckle.

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Definitely, my first wasband was a bully and made me feel stupid and worthless.
My second wasband turned out to be a compulsive liar who let me down very badly when I became ill.
I believe I was a good wife and didn't deserve them, if I'd had a good husband I wouldn't have had such a stressful life and would be happier and healthier.

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Absolutely I know I've picked up a bit of his aspergers behaviour ! And I somehow doubt many other men would have taken in kids like Steven has, not his responsibility to do so but each time one arrived he set to to make a home for them all. That has shaped my life in ways if I weren't with him I would have developed differently IMO

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Yes I'd probably had to work .

Re: Do you think you would be a different person if you had married a different person.

I wouln't know - not marrried.

Re: Do you think you would be a different person if you had married a different person.

My first husband was spineless bully. Enjoyed verbal and physical abuse.

I met my current husband in 2010 and have never been so happy. We got married on Valentines Day 2014. After me saying I will never get married again.

As life is so short we decided to live abroad and make most of everyday.

There are some really nice men out there
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Re: Do you think you would be a different person if you had married a different person.

I might be different at the beginning but l would soon slip into my old ways.. high maintenance, spoilt brat behaviour!
No, l think most people would be the same, it would just be a different venue!

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Our nephew has Aspergers Julie. A really nice guy and now happily married with a baby on the way.

His wife is marvellous and understands his unique personality. He is a accomplished artist. Not professionally

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Say hi to her from me, they are very special men and worth the effort !

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Do you think you would be a different person if you had married a different person?

I did, therefore I am.